. . . Giving Children A Place Of Hope & Safety
- 1 in 6 boys & 1 in 4 girls will be sexually abused before the age of
18.
- 60% of Child Abuse Cases are never reported.
- In the United States, 4 children die every day as a result of child abuse
and child abuse ranks as the second leading cause of death for children ages
one to five.
Six-year-old, Katie liked her mom's new boyfriend, Scott. Her
parents divorce had been really hard on Katie and her mom. She was
glad that Scott was around to do some of the things she used to do with her
dad. Scott would take her to play in the park and pick her up after school. The
best part was that because her mom worked second shift, she didn't
have to go to the babysitter's anymore because Scott would stay at
the house until her mom returned from work.
After a few months, Scott started taking her picture and sometimes he would
ask Katie to undress for the picture. Katie knew that it was wrong,
but she thought bad people were always mean and Scott wasn’t mean to
her. Katie's mom accidentally found one of the pictures that were taken
of Katie and called the police right away and that phone call was the beginning
of Katie's journey towards healing. Tyler's Justice Center
for Children has been a partner with Katie and her mom on every step of that
journey.
Definition of Abuse ... According to the Illinois Abused and Neglected
Children's Reporting Act "Abused child" means a child whose parent or immediate
family member, or any person responsible for the child's welfare, or any individual
residing in the same home as the child, or a paramour of the child's parent:
- inflicts, causes to be inflicted, or allows to be inflicted upon such child
physical injury, by other than accidental means, which causes death, disfigurement,
impairment of physical or emotional health, or loss or impairment of any
bodily function;
- creates a substantial risk of physical injury to such child by other
than accidental means which would be likely to cause death, disfigurement,
impairment of physical or emotional health, or loss or impairment of any
bodily function;
- commits or allows to be committed any sex offense against such child, as
such sex offenses are defined in the Criminal Code of 1961, as amended,
and extending those definitions of sex offenses to include children under
18 years of age;
- commits or allows to be committed an act or acts of torture upon such child; or
- inflicts excessive corporal punishment.
Warning Signs of Abuse From The Child Welfare Information Gateway, 2006
The Child:
- Shows sudden changes in behavior or school performance.
- Has not received help for physical or medical problems brought to the parents'
attention.
- Has learning problems (or difficulty concentrating) that cannot be attributed
to specific physical or psychological causes.
- Is always watchful, as though preparing for something bad to happen.
- Lacks adult supervision.
- Is overly compliant, passive, or withdrawn.
- Comes to school or other activities early, stays late, and does not want to go
home.
The Parent:
- Shows little concern for the child.
- Denies the existence of—or blames the child for—the child's problems
in school or at home.
- Asks teachers or other caretakers to use harsh physical discipline if the child
misbehaves.
- Sees the child as entirely bad, worthless, or burdensome.
- Demands a level of physical or academic performance the child cannot achieve.
- Looks primarily to the child for care, attention, and satisfaction of emotional
needs.
The Parent and Child:
- Rarely touch or look at each other.
- Consider their relationship entirely negative.
- State that they do not like each other.
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